I would tell myself that everything I had been and/or going to go through were lessons to give me the tools I needed to walk in my power when I was ready. That my life mattered and that everything I thought I didn't deserve would come to me easily once I learned how to appreciate them!
I might be answering this wrongly but I actually feel this way. I wouldn't tell myself anything. Because it would alter my present state of being currently. With the rapes, abuse, being raised in foster care, and lack of people who I can trust. And zero friends and biological family. With my past drug addiction and alcohol problem I can raise my head high I'm still here. 18 years clean and sober. And it's because of what I already went through I am who I am today. I just have a long way to go on my journey. But if I change one thing who's to say I would have the same life? What about my kids and future kids, my husband? I can't see my life without them. So my new me old see the old me and smile because though I know you hurting I know you will survive because you are a fighter. This had me emotional answering this. That was deep.
People will disappoint you try not to take it personally, you can’t save everyone especially if it is hurting you, not everyone is your friend, keep your dang business to yourself, when a person shows you their true colors believe them and move on, some people that give you the shirt off of their back may still stab you in the back while you’re wearing it, forgive others doesn’t mean you have to keep putting up with their crap either, and most of all forgive and love yourself. Also even thought you may have regrets I’m sure you had great intentions so move in from it learn your lesson and stop reliving the past life is short and things happen for a reason that you will later figure out❤️. 
Always put yourself first. Move at your own pace. Never let someone else make plans for your life. Don’t rush to be grown. Never pour more into others than you pour into yourself. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket at a early age. Live life
Asè I love it how do you feel this advice would have changed things ? do you feel as certain relationships wouldn’t have happened or would have been less painful when they ended
This advice would have changed things drastically for me I’m still healing from all the pain that I’ve endured throughout that relationship. I feel like life would be so different for me. That relationship wouldn’t have went that far at all if I was taught self love at a early age. I’m still learning and growing
I’m in my second serious relationship and Its way different because I know the dos and don’t and I know what’s healthy and what’s not
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Never doubt yourself. You are worthy. You are loved you are perfect in your own way. Never change because of what others think of you remain authentic and NEVER give up on yourself. You are doing just fine 💞
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Yes being the chosen one to break generational curses ain't easy oh but so worth it so so so worth it 💞
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It is a pleasure of mine. My heart is full of joy and I have happy years because after all I've been through my prayers have finally been answered. I was patient and endured. I was so over joyed to see your email this Rising. Looking forward to see where spirit is taking us all. I love you lots Mama
I would tell myself that everything I had been and/or going to go through were lessons to give me the tools I needed to walk in my power when I was ready. That my life mattered and that everything I thought I didn't deserve would come to me easily once I learned how to appreciate them!
Do not be hard on yourself and be patient❤️
I might be answering this wrongly but I actually feel this way. I wouldn't tell myself anything. Because it would alter my present state of being currently. With the rapes, abuse, being raised in foster care, and lack of people who I can trust. And zero friends and biological family. With my past drug addiction and alcohol problem I can raise my head high I'm still here. 18 years clean and sober. And it's because of what I already went through I am who I am today. I just have a long way to go on my journey. But if I change one thing who's to say I would have the same life? What about my kids and future kids, my husband? I can't see my life without them. So my new me old see the old me and smile because though I know you hurting I know you will survive because you are a fighter. This had me emotional answering this. That was deep.
People will disappoint you try not to take it personally, you can’t save everyone especially if it is hurting you, not everyone is your friend, keep your dang business to yourself, when a person shows you their true colors believe them and move on, some people that give you the shirt off of their back may still stab you in the back while you’re wearing it, forgive others doesn’t mean you have to keep putting up with their crap either, and most of all forgive and love yourself. Also even thought you may have regrets I’m sure you had great intentions so move in from it learn your lesson and stop reliving the past life is short and things happen for a reason that you will later figure out❤️. 
Make your own decisions and be who you are
Never let others determine who you are ! Always always always do things at your own pace! You are good enough ! You are beautiful !
Always put yourself first. Move at your own pace. Never let someone else make plans for your life. Don’t rush to be grown. Never pour more into others than you pour into yourself. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket at a early age. Live life
Never doubt yourself. You are worthy. You are loved you are perfect in your own way. Never change because of what others think of you remain authentic and NEVER give up on yourself. You are doing just fine 💞